Thursday, June 19, 2008

Forgiving someone who breaks our trust

Trust is one thing in this world that takes a lot of time and effort to build up, but can be done away with very easily.

In fact trust is the foundation of every relationship. Without trust, a relationship is like an "Humpty-Dumpty" sitting on a "wall"....waiting to "fall"...

Hence, trust is "The Most Important" thing that you look out in a relationship. And obviously, you lay your trust on a person, who you think will appreciate and respect your trust, who you think will never do injustice to it...

But when that very trust is broken by that person, it hurts a lot.

Its hard to forgive a person who breaks our trust, person who had a special place in our heart which won her/him our trust.

They might not be able to comprehend the extent to which their distrust has affected us, they may never realize it, because they don’t know the value of trust in a relationship.

But then, whatever has happened, has happened, we might not be able to undo it.

The only thing, we could do is to learn from it and move ahead in life. At a later stage we will realize that whatever happened in our past, happened for good.

A person whose trust was not respected by someone else, would be able to really appreciate the value of trust in a relationship.

Mistakes and problems in life offer us an opportunity to learn from them and continue with life.......
To punish or take revenge u need nothing, but to forgive u have to have a mountain of mental courage..........
MISS SHARK ~ girl who bought the world

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