How do i love n care for someone who doesn(?)'t love n care for me?

It's infact very easy to love people who love you and treat you well. we love our parents coz they take care of us and love us as if we are their sole posession ( we are'nt speaking about gratitude). we are the apple of their eye. And we love our grandparents coz, maybe no one couldtreat us better than them. Putting up with our tantrums, bearing all the naughty things we usedto do since we were a kid, buy all the unnecessary things we asked and all the necessary things we din't ask , allow us stay awake past our bedtime, tell us stories....... who could do all these better than our grandparents.

So, may be its the easiest thing , to love someone who loves you and cares for you. but then , how do we ever love someone who doesn'(?)t love you and doesn'(?)t care for you ?? someone who doesn'(t) treat you well?? how could we love the people who used to squeeze our cheeks when we our a kid (just becase at that time we dint know that it was pampering and just because our cheeks were so tender and used to ache)? how do i love that fellow who used to snatch my money and buy me chocolates of his choice ( just b'coz he would'nt allow me to select my chocolates :p), and how do i evr love my mathematics faculty (for the sole reason that she teaches me math, the subject which i have a strong aversion for) ?? and then the person who dodged the ball from me when i was dribbling the ball down the basketball court just when i was getting ready to shoot the ball (just b'coz that last shot could put us up as winners or brand us as losers)? How do we love or care for someone who is nosy about us? someone backbiting? or someone who creates roumers? And then can we love someone who fails to keep our trust (after all every relationship and every kind of relationship is based on this fragile thing)??

Ahem... maybe we could never, even after trying (?) but then a question in my head. Then what do i do with these people?? Should i reciprocate the same ego, spite, snoopiness, trump? what do we do? what? what should i? then another question from the deep within.......................

..... "ohh dear, so when did you start thinking of what other people said or did???


Hmmm... some question themselves prove to be the best answers........

signing off,

Miss Shark ~the girl who bought the world ( i'm not a billionaire)